Anxiety therapy for adolescents and adults in San Rafael, California. Learn how Internal Family Systems (IFS) and mindfulness-based therapy can help you calm your mind and reclaim your peace.

Anxiety therapy for Adolescents and Adults in San Rafael California.

How Anxiety Therapy Can Help

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Anxiety Therapy for Adolescents & Adults: Find Relief & Reclaim Your Peace

Anxiety can feel like a heavy fog that follows you everywhere — racing thoughts, constant tension, and the nagging fear that something bad is always about to happen. Whether you’re a teen overwhelmed by school or an adult trying to juggle it all, anxiety can take over your mind, body, and life.

You don’t have to live like this. With the right support, you can reduce your anxiety, develop tools to cope, and feel more at ease in your day-to-day life.

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Common Reasons People Come to Anxiety Therapy

Does Anxiety Feel Like It’s Taking Over Your Life?

You might be overthinking everything, replaying conversations, and worrying about worst-case scenarios. You may feel constantly on edge—like your mind never stops. Maybe your body’s showing the stress too: trouble sleeping, headaches, or that tight, anxious feeling in your chest.

For some, anxiety shows up as people-pleasing or perfectionism. For others, it’s avoidance, panic attacks, or a deep fear of being judged. However it shows up for you, therapy can help you make sense of your anxiety and start to feel more in control again.

What Happens in Anxiety Therapy?

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How Anxiety Therapy Can Change Your Life

Imagine Living With Less Stress and More Peace

Therapy doesn’t make stress disappear, but it gives you the tools to manage it more skillfully. Imagine feeling more grounded, present, and calm—able to handle life’s ups and downs without spiraling.

You can learn to quiet the noise in your head, trust your own decisions, and move through the world with more clarity and confidence.

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How Anxiety Therapy Works

IFS, Mindfulness, and a Holistic Path to Healing

I use a holistic, evidence-based approach to treating anxiety — blending Internal Family Systems (IFS), mindfulness practices, and cognitive tools. Together, we’ll explore the anxious parts of you with curiosity, not judgment. You’ll learn how to calm your nervous system, shift the way you think about stress, and access a more centered, confident version of yourself.

Lelah

Certified Anxiety Therapist in San Rafael, California

Meet Lelah Nichol — Anxiety Therapist for Teens and Adults

I’ve worked with countless clients navigating the toll anxiety can take on the mind, body, and relationships. Whether you’re a teen under pressure or an adult who’s tired of holding it all together, I’m here to help you find relief.

Using IFS and a compassionate, personalized approach, I create a space where healing doesn’t feel like work—it feels like finally exhaling.

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How Does Anxiety Show Up at Work?

When Work Feels Like a Pressure Cooker

Anxiety at work might show up as burnout, perfectionism, or the inability to shut your mind off after hours. You may feel pressure to perform flawlessly, constantly second-guess your contributions, or struggle with imposter syndrome.

Therapy can help you create boundaries, manage work-related stress, and feel more empowered in your professional life.

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How Does Anxiety Show Up in Romantic Relationships?

Love Shouldn’t Feel Like a Minefield

Relationship anxiety can make you question everything — Do they really care about me? Am I too much? You might fear being judged, rejected, or misunderstood. You may find yourself overanalyzing texts or avoiding vulnerability.

In therapy, we can unpack these fears so you can show up in relationships with more security, confidence, and emotional clarity.

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What Does Anxiety Sound Like Inside Your Mind?

When the Voice in Your Head Won’t Let You Rest

Anxiety often shows up as an inner monologue that’s fast, fearful, and relentless. What if I mess this up? What if something bad happens? What if I’m not enough? In therapy, we work with those inner voices—learning not to silence them, but to understand what they need, and how to soothe them with compassion and care.

Take the First Step Toward Calmer, Clearer Days

 It’s okay to need support — healing starts with one brave conversation.

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Common Types of Anxiety

Anxiety doesn’t always look the same. Whether it shows up as social anxiety, generalized worry, panic attacks, or perfectionism, it deserves care and understanding—not shame.

GAD involves chronic worry and mental tension about everyday life—often paired with physical symptoms like fatigue, restlessness, or muscle tension.

Social anxiety is a deep fear of being judged or rejected in social situations. It can cause intense stress before meetings, social gatherings, or even casual conversations.
Panic disorder includes sudden, overwhelming waves of fear that feel uncontrollable. Panic attacks can be terrifying—but therapy can help you feel safer in your body and your life.
You may appear calm and successful on the outside, but feel constantly overwhelmed on the inside. Therapy can help you slow down and find real peace—not just productivity.
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How I Treat Anxiety at San Rafael CA

I combine IFS, mindfulness, and cognitive-based strategies to help clients reduce anxiety and reconnect with inner calm. My approach is collaborative, compassionate, and tailored to your unique needs.

IFS helps you understand the anxious parts of you—not to push them away, but to meet them with curiosity and compassion. This builds inner safety and self-trust.

Mindfulness helps you slow down and stay grounded in the present, reducing the intensity of anxious thoughts and improving emotional regulation.
We’ll work on recognizing and shifting unhelpful thought patterns that fuel anxiety, replacing them with more balanced, supportive perspectives.
Therapy helps you build a kinder relationship with yourself and develop calming tools to soothe your nervous system when anxiety strikes.

Client Testimonial

Lelah’s practices are transformative and have changed my entire mind-body reaction in one session, from highly anxious to calm and focused. She has helped find the tools within me to soothe and support myself on an ongoing basis, outside of her office, and with increasingly less assistance. She’s a rich wealth of trusted resources

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